Sep
13

Sitting in a big crowd of friends noticed a silly thing which really seemed to be ill-mannered… we friends were gossiping and suddenly a girl whispered to another girl and they started to laugh and make fun of something which we couldn’t understand. This was so offensive that everyone after sometime when the 2 girls left the room, talked about the matter that what actually was going on between the two or what did they saw that we can’t which made them laugh ect…

And after some days we come to know the matter and it was a useless thing to be discussed like that.

Again I noticed the same stupid thing that one of friend came and took the girl from the group in side and started to talk like we were strangers to her and she didn’t know her!!!!!

Sometimes we don’t even think actually what we are doing and how sometimes that can make others react…It happens but we should be careful in not to create such silly scenes, because these minor things sometimes can create big upsets and troubles. :)

Jul
13

After vacation for one month, we packed our luggage and left homes for hostel. We were late for 1 week so when we reached here many of our friends were already here to welcome us. Met them, greeted the seniors and hugged the juniors on way to the roomJ. As soon as we entered the room, we were just shocked to see a fine room even after a month! Thank to our junior room-mateJ. But still it needed a big touch to be perfect clean! We left that work for tomorrow.

On next morning went to college, attended the class and got the little break, as usual the whole group gathered in the canteen and had full fun there with lots of fun and lots of loudJ.

Again back to last class…buhh!!!!!!! The last lecture of the day, very tiring. At last we shouted gathered and asked the teacher to finish, and how can He say “no” before a big population of girlsJ.

Back to room again, and started our delayed job of cleaning the room. Ohhh GOD…we had never been as tired before as at this time. It took about whole the day and still couldn’t finish it up to 2:00 am!!!!!  It was about 3:30 that we went to sleep and set our mind to wake up early to reach college at time.

The next day, same routine, same classes and same last class ending, but something was different today…guess what!!!

It was weather…wow!!!!!! So cloudy…the sky was just whole covered with the black, bulky clouds…the hotness of city made girls cry for discontinue  the college and wanted to get another vacation for 15 days but the awesome weather changed all the minds, because everyone knew, now the real fun is going to begin in the hostel.

It started raining at about 11:30 pm when we were sitting in our room and thinking to go on terrace to enjoy fresh breeze. We went outside and felt a strong throw of air. It was graveled and we felt it as we passed the door, waited for it to slow down. We couldn’t waited and went outside, start calling friends nicks, teased the seniors and juniors by hiding our faces with scarves. Went to terrace…wow!!!! It was so cool. Enjoyed the winter in hard summerJ.

Gathered there, danced, sang songs without caring of others comment, shouted and had fun with all, and exchanged past memories…simply it was loveable and unforgettable. How time passed and it struck 3:00…just didn’t realize and were washed up totally with rain water…certainly about to get coldJ.

Went to bed to get up early again for the same routineJ.

Ahhh…can’t forget that heavy rain with heavy fun and joy and the part of life made the most marvelous one by friends :) .

Jul
03

After a long gap back to the world of words…

Thinking again to begin writting

so here me back with few new thoughts,

new hopes,

new beginnings,

new endings,

new paths,

new destinations,

with all new,

with all me,

with a hope to write something better and useful.:)


Apr
15

This post is about the women, about all that constitute her life, that is their birth, childhood, education, days before marriage and days after marriage and all relations fulfilled by her.

 

In this post I am going to write about the issues and problems being faced by women in her different stages of life, from her birth until she dies.

 

So getting started from her childhood. If we look in to the history we will come know that in old days the newly born girls were buried to get rid from the girl given curse, as thought. I t was considered as girl’s birth will cost them a lot as when she will grew up she won’t earn so parents always needed boy who will be responsible in future to nourish them and will fulfill their needs. So tradition of inequity is from centuries and it is growing inspite of regressing, despite the world has stepped so far in development and advancement.

 

If we see today’s world, it is not so much changed for the women as even today they haven’t provided with their rights. Passing through roads, streets we often see 5-6 years old girls wandering to beg for money, for help, for food or having something to sell and get some money. Asked by their masters even to thieve and rob.

 

Girls of the age, in which they should go school and study, are seen working in homes as servants and nurses. There they are asked for any cheap work to do in return of food and money. Often beaten and throbbed for not doing their jobs as said.

 

Some how few girls manage to get education and seek jobs. They had to struggle more than men because they are often not given chances because of inequity in society, their intelligence being neglected at once. If they some how get job, they are asked to work for little pay and given more work. Some married women involved in both sides that is those who have home and office both to be maintained are really in big issue. Because if any of the side neglected, she has to face insult form the master that is the office boss or husband in home. She is tortured for job or marriage life.

 

Regarding health issues there are a few hospitals for the especial treatment of women. Most of the women are unaware of hygiene conditions and proper treatment for their health. Many women from villages are cheated by giving them wrong doses and given expired medicines. At some places the functioning organs are replaced with malfunctioning one which results fatal conditions.

Now-a-days a few issues are getting very serious and common. Some of these are:

 

Many girls are forced to change their religion and becoming Muslims, not accepting their own religion that is Hinduism. Girls who have left their religion are taken to some illegal places and asked to work there. They are being tortured and killed afterwards.

 

Many girls were kidnapped, parents were not informed y the kidnapers about anything and few months after their dead bodies were found nearby. Many of the kidnapped one were rapped and killed cruelly.

Still these kind of wrong deeds are going on. No action is taken by police, if parents are asking so, they are abused and asked to sit quietly and keep watching what is going on!

 

Ladies are even not allowed by their family members to step out from homes, because of the insult and prevailing situation in society. Young girls who somehow managed to go school are also not permitted now. Women working in offices are now asked to sit at homes and live as house wives in remaining life.

 

Where every religion has placed the women at high rank of respect, today that woman is insulted. It is very sorry to say that the religious leaders who are supposed to spread knowledge about women rights are misguiding the followers.

 

If this continues and violence against women community continues, it will result in totally destruction of women rights and society.

 

 

 

Mar
14

 

If you think you are beaten, you are.

If you think you dare, but you do not,

If you like to win, but you think you can’t,

It is almost certain you won’t.

 

If you think you’ll loose, you are lost,

For out in the world we find,

Success begins with a fellows will,

It’s all in the state of mind.

 

You think you are out-classed, you are,

You have got to think high to rise,

You have got to be sure of yourself before,

You can ever win a prize.

 

Life’s battle do not always is for stronger man, but sooner or later the man who wins is the man who thinks he can.

Feb
28

Shiv Ratri, it was on 23th of febuary this year. It is a religious occassion of hindh religion.

Significance of Shivratri

shivaratri-wallpapers1-bFestival of Mahashivaratri is the most important festival for the millions of devotees of Lord Shiva. The festival has been accorded lot of significance in Hindu mythology. It says that a devotee who performs sincere worship of Lord Shiva on the auspicious day of Shivratri is absolved of sins and attains moksha.

Significance of Shivaratri in Hinduism
Festival of Mahashivaratri has tremendous significance in Hinduism. According to sacred scriptures, ritual worship of Lord Shiva on Shivratri festival that falls on the 14th day of the dark fortnight in the month of Phalgun pleases Lord Shiva the most. This fact is said to have been declared by Lord Shiva himself, when his consort Parvati asked him as to which ritual performed by his devotees pleases him the most.

Even till date, devotees of Lord Shiva perform the ritual worship of Shivratri with care and devotion. They observe day and nigh fast and give sacred bath to Shiva Linga with honey, milk, water etc. Hindus consider it extremely auspicious to worship Lord Shiva on a Shivaratri as it is believed that worship of Lord Shiva with devotion and sincerity absolves a devotee of past sins. The devotee reaches the abode of Lord Shanker and lives there happily. He is also liberated from the cycle of birth and death and attains moksha or salvation.

Significance of Shivaratri for Women
Mahashivratri Festival is also considered to be an extremely significant festival by women. Married and unmarried women observe fast and perform Shiva Puja with sincerity to appease Goddess Parvati who is also regarded as ‘Gaura’ – one who bestows marital bliss and long and prosperous married life. Unmarried women also pray for a husband like Lord Shiva who is regarded as the ideal husband.

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According to rituals of SHIVRATRI, we friends rathere and prayed whole night, bathed in morning and got ready. Then left for the daily routine of college…bored!!! nothing change even on this day!! no ways!!!!

 We decided to  go outside in temple and attend the pooja done on this grand occassion.

We requested our principal to take us to local temple, an he granted permission.

In evening we all got ready to go…and the point took us to a very very beautiful temple. It was not too big but very well decorated.

We did puja in worship of SHIVA.And enjoyed the bhajans, satsung there.

There we came to know about different religious things from the Pujari baba of that temle. Also met with different people.

We break our fast by ahving PARSAD, given to us after AARTI.

It was too late now and we ahd to leave for hostel.

That day became memorable, with sweet moments which we never thought to become possible.

JAI BHOLE

Feb
27

I have been never so much involved in sports as now-a-days.

A few weeks ago, I participated in badminton in “Sports Week Competition” of our college. Unfortunately I lost in that but no matter at least I tried which I had never before.

By that I came to know about the rules to play better next time.

 

Very well said:

You will never gain until you learn to loose…

You will never learn until you try to…

 

And a few days ago I saw my foreigner friends playing Football in the ground…I just kept gazing them because they were really good, on other side, I, who never had even touched the football before. But I decided to play and learn and I am doing so…

I felt happy when I first time entered in the field and played not so badJ

 

Let’s hope for the best that one day I will also be able to play good.

 

Feb
27

A few days ago, our professor during class, started to tell us something about handling life matters.

Talking about the mistakes, cheats, forgiveness he quoted few words that are:

 

 

 

  • Insult can be forgiven, but cannot be forgotten.

 

 

I wrote it down because it inspired me, may be because I was going through such kind of situation.

So I thought to share this here, may some other also learn something from such ordinary but meaningful words.

 

Feb
19

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I was asked a few question by my freinds, which I thought to mention here and answer those ?s.
 
Qno.1: Does love happens only for once?
 
Ans: No it can happen more than once. ;-)
Qno.2: Can the prayers chage the fate of a man?
 
Ans:Yes ofcourse, as everything is in GOD’s hands and He always want His creation to beg before Him, He is merciful and really change His decision for the man, if he asks for held/need.
 

Qno.3: Who is trustworthy, friend or love?  
  
Ans: I will say it is love.
            That love can be for anyone, for family or for someone else.
 


Qno.4: Any wish of yours, which you are waiting to become true?
 
Ans: Ahhh!
           When i will be responsible enought to tackle and solve out life problems without with discouraged from myself.
 
Qno.5: Without whom you can not live? 
   
Ans: I can not live without my family, and their support.
  
Qno.6: What do u feel when you look yourself in mirror?
 
 Ans: :-(
              Why I am always given less priority only becuse of my looks!!!!!!
 


 

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Feb
18

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lET ME TAKE YOU BACK IN OLD DAYS…

WHEN THERE WAS ONLY CHUPAN CHUPAI,

POLKA,

POPCORN,

WATCHING 7:30AM CARTOON BEFORE GOING TO SCHOOL,

7PM NTM CHANNEL,NINJA TURTLES,CAPTIAN PLANNET,THUNDERCATS,

LATE NIGHT SHOWS,

PAKISTAN WINNING CRICKET AND HOCKEY WORLDCUPS,

WE USED TO KNOW EACH AND EVERYONE IN OUR LANE,

CHUP CHUP K KITE FLYING,

OHH HAAN,

Rs:7  KI PEPSI, BUN AND SAMOSAS,

JUBILLE, ECLAIRS, BUUBLE GUMMERS SHOW PILLOW FIGHT, RUNNING TILL YOU ARE OUT OF BREATHE,

BEING TIRED FROM PLAYING,

Rs:10 EIDI,

DECISION MADE BYEENY MEENII MOE,

AFRAID OF DOG BITE,INJECTIONS AND DARKROOM,

ARGUING WITH FRIENDS WHO RUN FASTER!!

AHH!!! WHAT A TRAUMATIC MOMENTS…CAN THE OLD DAYS COME BACK AGAIN, CAN WE ENJOY THE SAME MASTIFUL LIFE AGAIN, CAN WE HAVE ALL SUCH JOYS AGAIN???!!!